Wednesday, April 01, 2020
Dating Site Idiots

How to Tweak a Narcissist 101 Episode

January 4

Idiot: Good morning Vicki How are you today?

(I did not respond to this message, or any messages on this site for at least six weeks. Reasons included in the following exchange.)

January 28

Idiot: Do everyone a favor and don’t swipe right on someone if all your doing is playing games considering you did here and when you were messaged good morning how are you, you read it and ignored it. At your age the games should be over. Good luck

Me: Wow… my father passed away suddenly, and I was not in a place mentally to start anything. You have NO idea what is going on in people’s lives. Maybe, under certain circumstances, a person who you have never even met, won’t be a top priority. Thank you for the message thought… Now that I am learning what kind of person you are, I’m glad I didn’t waste my time. You might want to rethink “easy-going and caring” on your profile. The insult about my age was a particularly nice touch.

Idiot: He passed away, but you had no problem logging on and reading messages and responding to this one. If my dad passed the last thing on my mind would be checking messages on match. It wasn’t an insult was simply saying the games should be long over by now. Thank you for showing your true colors so I didn’t wast me time either. Oh either way I am sorry about your father.

Me: OMG You may be the least caring most self-centered person I’ve met on here. Just because I went onto the site to make sure I had not promised to meet anyone, or had disappeared from a conversation that was already underway, YOU feel entitled to a first response enough to insult me, and continue to do so even when learning the circumstances. Again, you have no idea what’s going on in other people’s lives, but I’ve just learned that it doesn’t make a difference to you… Because YOU don’t care what’s going on in other people’s lives. You even decided to keep lecturing me about how I should be behaving after my father’s death. You may actually be the worst person I’ve come across on here, and that’s saying a lot.

Idiot: Once again you read and ignore a message and you couldn’t say a simple hello because of your situation but you can respond and send all this. You make no sense. There’s way too many people playing games on there and you seem to be one of them. How come you couldn’t say hello? I don’t expect everything to be dropped to answer me but I have no patience for ignorance. Congratulations your the first person to think I’m not caring. It just amazes responding with all this considering your situation. Oh well. Oh and you say nothing when I said sorry about your father but you can keep harping on what you think I did wrong and continue trying to insult me. Good luck with the games.

Me: Still defending your callused entitlement. Nice. I guess you don’t own a calendar, or understand what I might’ve been going through a few weeks ago, and then I might have been ready to respond to people now.

Idiot: Your so self absorbed that you still don’t get the point. Unreal. Obviously your ready to respond oh and I do know what your going through I’ve experienced twice so I’m going to tell you the same thing and don’t assume you know what’s going on on this end. This is just going to continue to go back and forth let’s just agree that both of us are glad we didn’t waste our time with each other and move on. Once again I’m truly sorry about your situation. Good luck on here.

*** This is where I am kicking myself, for not realizing the opportunity to ask the question that my dear friend “Miss C” noted when reading this paragraph above, “Your father died TWICE?”

Me: Incredible how obnoxious it is that you can assume that your situation with losing a family member is so similar to mine that you can tell me how I should be conducting myself through it. Maybe you should focus on the people that actually want to talk to you… Rather than making it your mission to chastise everyone who doesn’t send you a message when you want, the way you want, on your terms.

Idiot: Once again you twisting things around to make yourself the victim here. Get over yourself and move on. Your just looking for a argument. Goodbye

Me: You’re the one on a mission to lecture women who don’t answer you on a dating site. I don’t think I am the one that needs to get over themselves.

Idiot: Not women just you with your ignorance.

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